Showing different profile pages to certain people friends



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New to this, my ex and i have been on a break, and may be over. her page is set to private, and i know she's good w/ computers, having worked in IT. is it possible for her to be showing me a different profile, and other of her friends her real profile.(without having 2 different myspace accounts)

exp- like if she wanted me to see certain albums/comments/friends with limitations , BUT have other friends see her complete profile with all pictures, comments, friends??

She's made new girlfriends and all of a sudden are so close to them. there are times, when those new friends make their
profile private, then public. I think its to coverup comments and remove pics when they've been posted for awhile.
But one thing I noticed, that my ex is on most of their top friends list. and with them being all so close now,
NONE of them are in her display of Top friends, but are added as her friends. It seems very fishy, cuz some of her
top friends, are old and rarely socialize with them, but are still as top friends. My ex is very computer savy, and I need to know whether to just end my relationship with her, even though we have a kid. it sucks that i have to go through all this. I have a feeling some pics aren't available for me to see, but is visible to others. and with her friend count
too. I also noticed that her friend count has been decreasing often. Why is that? Is she hiding them?

Her profile is private, I wish I could show u guys her codes,etc. = view source commands, filled with a lot of verbage
i dnt understant. Lol! Please if anybody can help, I would greatly appreciate it. And feel free to email me. thanks so much!



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aliciah3
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Re: Showing different profile pages to certain people friends

i wont repeat what the others have already told you ....

however, i do empathize with you about your situation, i have been there done that and it sucked bad to be that mistrusting!!! but once a person breaks that bond of trust with you, they either have to do some extensive "proving" to gain your trust again, but if she isnt helping you along by her actions, i always say..."your actions speak so loud i cant hear what you are saying!!" and that is what you must watch...her actions with you...if they are not on the up and up, and she has taken your insecurities, or broken trust (which ever applies) seriously, and tried to comfort, and help show you she is true blue, then there is your answer....again it is always in their actions!! i am sorry to hear about your misfortune...and i just hope for the childs sake you both be mature, and be mutual friends, even if it is just around your child, because if you two try to make the child choose, you will only end up the looser in the end!!!

good luck and i hope any part of what i have said helps you both!!!

aliciah3



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Re: Showing different profile pages to certain people friends

so sorry to hear of your troubles, but i gotta say that i agree  with p to the izzle. if something on myspace is going to make or break your relationship, then i think it's pretty much  over. i'm sorry to say this, and i think it's a shame, especially with a child involved. good luck to you.   juliek

 

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tburgesn
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Re: Showing different profile pages to certain people friends

I have some codes to view pics and on some profiles they work then on other profiles nothing.. why is this. If they were fixed then they would not show any pics right. They always show my pics and my profile is private. This is beginning to confuse me.



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Re: Showing different profile pages to certain people friends

to tburgesn: The reason your codes work on some and not other profiles is this: You can only see pictures from albums that are set to public (even when the profile itself is private)........If a profile is private, and the pics are also set to private, you cannot see them. Check your settings.....you say your profile is private and you can see your pics...that means that your pics are set to public......

 

edit....sorry, smartmom, I didnt see your post explaining the same thing, lol....... 



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Re: Showing different profile pages to certain people friends

If you don't want your pictures to be viewed then you need to mark them as "private" also.  Just because your profile is marked "private" doesn't mean that your pictures (and blogs for that matter) are also private.  If you click on Add/Edit Photos on your myspace you will see the option to mark them private.  The current codes out there will allow you to see the pictures (and blogs) that are set to "public" but in "private" profiles.   

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romanov1918
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Re: Showing different profile pages to certain people friends

Why don't you create a fake profile of a girl and start adding her friends first, then add her.  This way you will see everything you are dying to know. To be honest, what this really boils down to is trust.  



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Re: Showing different profile pages to certain people friends

Look at her friends - friends.  Look to see if maybe you see a second profile hiding.  If your friends with her profile you can always comment her and then embed the comment with a tracker.  That will show you who is hitting her page.   If she is good on computers like you said then be prepared to lie if she finds it.  As for her profile the only thing she could hide is pictures and blogs to "preferred list" only.  But doing that won't hide it just won't let you access it.  She can also add codes to hide her friends and comments (along with other things on the page) but if you have Firefox and you use the view "no style" then you can unhide them.  Good luck! Laughing

 

 

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Re: Showing different profile pages to certain people friends

And as for the "top friends" thing, her friends can have her on their "top" and she doesn't have to reciprocate. Everyone chooses their own top friends and just because "Susan" is on your page, you may not be on hers. Does that make sense?

If you think she's changing her page for your sake, she may as well be doing that. She can't have 2 different pages without having a separate account, but she can delete things before showing you. If she deletes things, however, she won't be able to get them back later.

Good luck! Hope your suspicions are wrong....



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Re: Showing different profile pages to certain people friends

First, she really couldn't show you a different page from everyone else. Unless you mean because you only see the private profile page. That's a setting in MySpace where only her friends can see her profile. You can also make pics friend only or totally private.

I've noticed people switch their profiles from public to private fairly frequently. I wouldn't read into it. 

If her page is private how do you know her friend count is going down? Are you her friend on MySpace?

Lastly I will say that if your relationship is so fragile that the contents of an online social networking site might make your relationship completely collapse, it might be too late. Sorry.  

"I'm just like you only shorter."

 

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