Is there a way to "boot" someone who has subscribed to your blogs on myspace?

Ok all.  Thanks for the help.

I was pretty upset with a Family member who was a, "friend" on myspace.  She did something yesterday,... and I was pretty hot.

I booted her (ya, pretty hot!) as a friend,... but she was subscribed for my blogs.

I'm sorry, but (going to vent here) if family members don't care about me (they've made that quite clear through their actions) then why do they always want to be in my business?  The don't have anything to do with me, but they gossip about me, and do their best to cut me down.

My Grandma passed away this past October.  I was VERY close to her.  She was a very giving lady,... always trying to help people with no thought for herself!

She had no income (except for the Government) and would make tons of sandwiches, bottled water, or whatever and by herself, take it to the local park where hundreds of homeless people were.  She would feed them, and talk with them every day.

She would buy socks, gloves and hats from the dollar store for the kids and adults.  

If my Uncle (her Son) had another one of his "business ideas" he would always ask her for money to do it, .... and she would give him whatever she could!  

She just had a huge heart for people, and to the point where she was taken advantage of.

The last year she was alive, a "good friend" of hers (for over 20 years) was taking care of her, since the family member I booted yesterday, was treating her horribly at home.  (Pinching her, yelling at her to "give me the damn money!" when all he did was baby sit, and putting baby monitors under her bed so she could listen in on her phone conversations, etc.) 

The friend got her out of that mess, and got her into a home for independent older people.

Well, she was going to the car from the doctors with a nurse when she fell and broke her prosthetic hip!  (She was about 81 at the time)

She was rushed to the hospital where they had to operate.  The friend called me.  Now I had just moved into our new house one state away,... we had been there a whole whopping 2 days.  I grabbed the three kids, called the Hubby, and we drove 6 hours to get to her, to be with her during this difficult time.  That's what family is supposed to do, right?

I called the rest of the family.  Not one came for her.  Not one called to check up on how she was doing.  NOTHING.

If I can take 3 smaller kids to a place I've never been for her,... the rest of the family could have it least called!  

After that, she never really could walk again.  She was put into a Nursing Home.  She asked the friend to get on her bank account so she could help pay her bills and get her money if she needed some.

Well, she sure did!  After some months, Grandma was dumped by this friend when all the money was spent by her!! NOT GRANDMA,... the friend!  $8,000.00 on a car,.... hundreds on plane tickets, $300.00 at Petco, ETC.

So, we went and rented an RV, and my Family went and got her out of that "dog pound" of a Nursing Home! It was AWFUL!  Again, no family called or visited her.

We brought her back to a GOOD Nursing Home about 10 minutes away from us. I was homeschooling the 2 boys and had the little 1 year old girl at the time, plus taking care of Grandma. We would take lunch over to her and visit. Or snag some White Castle (her favorite!) and get her the necessities she needed.  She was there for close to a year.

We moved 5 hours north for a job,... and planned on bringing her up with us. We just had to find a good Nursing Home for her.

Not long after we got here, I got the call that there was a major infection going through her body.  They needed to operate to get it cleaned out.  The Surgeon's told me it was bad.  And they really urged me to be there.

Again, I called the family to let them know.  And again, no one called, or came  for her.  

I packed up, and Hubby stayed home with the kids. (Which was not easy, being at a new job!)

I drove the 5 hours there, and stayed with her for about 3 days.  Sleeping in the waiting room wears on you!

Her operation went well,... but the next few days things started going down hill.  She stopped eating.  She refused feeding tubes, she was in a LOT of pain, and just got worse.

Again, I would call the family and let them know what's going on.  There response? "Well, when she dies and goes to Heaven, she's be just fine."

WHAT THE HECK?!  WHAT ABOUT RIGHT NOW?!

I would call her, and she would be delirious, screaming, "I want to die! I want to die!" and moaning.  For TWO WEEKS this went on!

I did my best.  I tried to make all the best decisions I could for her. I loved her more than anyone in my family,.. we were very close.

When she died, I honestly was glad.  She wasn't suffering anymore.

The point to all of this,.... I am a Christian.  I know we are supposed to love our enemies.  But, all the "family" now wants her things, and expects them.  They showed no interest in her,.. but when she's gone, now they want some of her stuff!

... I'm cannot put my myspace page to private, just because I have it to get God's Word out.  And it is.  Listen, just because someone is a Christian doesn't mean we don't have problems, struggles or issues.  We are not perfect or know everything.  And if you encounter a Christian that thinks they are perfect or know everything,.... stay away from them!  Don't listen to them!

The family has been talking about me behind my back for some time now. They have even written me and said, " That's why being the power
of attorney isn't so fun, all of the financial responsibility that you become legally responsible for."

Who the heck ever said caring for ANYONE is fun, when they are in that state?! 

When I asked the family for any help with the cost of having her body taken to the University,.... not one offered a dime.  "Sell her stuff!" they said.

She doesn't have much, I guarantee you. 

I don't understand how people,... FAMILY, that she literally gave the shirt off her back to over and over and over again could treat her like that,... especially during the hardest time in her life.

Really. 

Sorry for venting here guys.  I know that this site is not meant for this kind of stuff.... I'm just..... tired of being back stabbed by, "family". 

So do I block her? 

 Sorry for going on and on like this guys.

"Peak-a-boo, I see you!"

Blocking them works... Tried and succeeded!!!

Is there a way to boot someone subscribed to your videos?

Is there a way to boot someone subscribed to your videos?

Please let me know if blocking them works.

I've learned that whenever I decide something with kindness, I've usually made the right decision.

no  

but if your blogs are for friends only they can't see them or if you make your profile private. or just tell them they are creeping you out and to stop jocking you.

*Bling Bling*