Find out if your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is cheating online

hey my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, we've been very happy together even though we dont live together, we try to be together as much as possible and he usually comes to my house for that, i need someones advice or help here please!!, I havent suspected him of cheating until a few days ago when he came over..at one point he went on my computer and went on his email account and was looking for a password for some website we were looking at..When he left my house he forgot to shut his email off and I went to look in his sent mail out of curiousity and found numbers and numbers of emails to people on craigslist looking for sex etc. the emails werent more than just them sending and receiving pix and maybe a sentence or two...i started to cry because never imagined he'd need to do this since he had me...i texted him crazily and he called me right away to talk to me about it and promised hes never cheated on me ever and he loves me too much to ever hurt me and since we have unprotected sex he said he would never do something with someone else because he would never want to risk giving me anything...i really want to believe him, we have been going out for 8 months only but hes been trying to meet me for 5 years before than and i turned him down several times...our relationship has not gotten really any different since we started being together, but seeing those emails was just a little bit of a shocker, he claims he just gets very bored @ home sometimes and he doesnt want them he wants me....do you think he is cheating? he doesnt have much time away from me or work to cheat but i still worry, i've always been a worrier I'd aprreciate if I can be given some advice from someone THANK YOUU!!!

Do you want to truthfully know how to get access to specific sites and find what your partner is doing online? Well this is my personal opinion and also through some personal experience. I will recommend any of the following: 1) Install a keylogger onto the computer that your partner uses. I personally recommend Perfect Keylogger.: Do you want to know what your buddy or co-workers are doing online? Or perhaps you want to check up on your children or spouse and know what they are doing on the computer? With Perfect Keylogger it is possible in just 2 minutes! This program runs on the installed computer, fully hidden from its users, and logs everything that is typed in a protected file. Install Perfect Keylogger and take total control of the PC!  Perfect Keylogger is a new generation keylogger which is absolutely undetectable. It was created as an alternative to very expensive commercial products like iSpyNow, Spector Keylogger or E-Blaster. It has the same functionality, but is significantly easier to use. Complex internal mechanisms are hidden from the user behind the friendly interface. You can install Keylogger and immediately use it without changing of its settings. or SpyBoss KeyLogger PRO: SpyBoss Pro leading keylogger computer & Internet monitoring software tool SpyBoss Pro records every detail of what is done on a computer – records chats, instant messages, emails, web sites visited, what is searched for, what is done on MySpace.com, pictures posted and looked at, keystrokes typed, the programs run and much much more… Spy Boss also uses advanced surveillance screen snapshot features, you get to see not only what they do, but the exact order in which they do it, step by step. With SpyBoss Pro, you will never doubt who is doing what on the computer. Pitt falls: You do not have administration access on their computer. Advice: Start to show an interest in the internet. Make it seem like there are some really cool sites you want to visit because it was mentioned to you either through a friend or through a magazine. Or even start playing games online. I know it might be hard...but in this case do not make them suspicious. Make it light-hearted and whenever you visit them, ask if you could use their computer for a little bit to access sites or your email. So if they have their computer password-protected you can sit down at their computer and happily ask (without changing your tone of voice or making contact) "what is your password?" If they are your partner and love you they will have nothing to hide and will tell you the password. With which you happily log onto their computer and proceed to do as you said you were going to. Check email... or whatever...and then sadly express it hasn't arrived the email or anything. But then dismiss it from your mind and let your tone and voice convey that it doesn't matter. Hug them closely or stand up and go to the kitchen, saying you need coffee or something. Anything to change the subject. After all...your only goal was to get the password for the computer. Then at some point write it down if you can- do not get caught and do not leave the password that has been written down in an obvious place. If you have a small address book, you can browse to a page where lots have been written and just jot it down in the corner or somewhere. Remember where you stored it. Objective Complete. Now get your partner accustomed to being on their computer as well... and on a day when they go out for a short while...offer to stay at home and install the keylogger. Second Pit Fall: If you have administration access to the computer, then this will be much easier. The Anti-Virus Program installed on the computer may very well detect it and say it's spyware, malware etc. In reality that is what a keylogger is. Don't fool yourself. It records everything the person does. So you have administration log in rights. Now what? Install Keylogger. However, here are a few tricks I would recommend. * When it asks where it should install to, choose a very obscure folder where you can install it to. In general theory...computer savvy people know their computers and if they come across the files, they will be able to find out where its from by just entering the file names onto a search engine and verifying what type of file it is. * I would recommend you familiarize yourself with your C:\WINDOWS folder. Technically this is where it will hold all your folders and files associated with Windows in General. Navigate to any folder you wish... for example, you should be able to locate the 'MSAgent' folder (if you have that) or 'Help' located at C:\WINDOWS\Help This would be a good place to install the keylogger to. It's a place where hardly anyone would look. You can go one step further and look for a folder that has an obscure name... just remember where you will install it. However, please remember this- VERY IMPORTANT: Create another folder in the one that you are going to use. In my example....I used 'MSAgent' and then created another folder called: dbl It will look like this: C:\WINDOWS\msagent\dbl The reason I chose this particular folder is because it already has some obscure named folders in it called: C:\WINDOWS\msagent\intl So having something called 'dbl' fits right in with the look of the folder. ---So back to installing the Keylogger--- Install it to your newly created folder. Navigate to it when it asks where you want to install it. It will also ask at some point what specific password or key functions you will use to bring up the program. So think before hand how it should be done. Let's say you want to set the keylogger program's password for: apple123 And the key functions to bring it up will be: CRTL and the letter X combined together. (as an example) You have to remember that keyloggers hide themselves on the computer. Unless you know how to bring it up and the password to the program, no one else will be able to access it. Also remember this... this is the internet Age. If you install a keylogger and it gets detected...and you happen to be around when it does get detected... just play innocent and show your outrage that the 'internet isn't safe... and you cannot believe how easily malware and spyware can get onto someone's computer nowadays. Make it believeable... you can even say how you read a story about how many millions of viruses and spyware a person can get. In general theory IT IS THE TRUTH. You are not lying. In fact normal hackers use email to attach spyware and worms to it and when the user opens it, it will quickly install onto the computer and without the users knowledge...duplicate itself and run silently in the background while gathering ALL your details. Quite scary actually. The same goes for software that people install. Companies are getting more clever and embedding these type of programs into a normal software application to gather data. Its quite illegal. But they don't care. So there is a little bit of information for you. More knowledge on the subject will help a lot of people. Once its installed... play around with the application. Set your password and read the manual to the keylogger. You should know everything about it. The beauty of keyloggers are that some of them will send the information to your email every now and again. Just create a free hotmail or yahoo account that only you know about. Never leave any evidence for your partner to find. Then you can set it up that at certain intervals it will be sent to your email. As it says you can view what sites they visit...what they say in chats etc. You will know everything! * You can test your keylogger before running it. Either a) You can install it onto your own computer (if you have one) and see if the anti-virus software will detect it, or b) Install it onto your partner's computer when he/she is out for a little while (preferable he/she is gone for an hour or more). This way you can see if any of their programs will detect the keylogger. * You can go one step further and navigate to the anti-virus software, look for the options where you can change things, and set that the anti-virus should allow the keylogger to operate. It shouldn't see the keylogger as something harmful. However, on many occasions it does and therefore it alert the user to the fact that he has something malicious on his computer. Contrary to the belief...keyloggers will not harm your system. For those that want to know. Viruses destroy data. A keylogger merely logs whatever actions the user does on the computer. Therefore you can gain passwords, see what sites they visit...see who they are talking to etc. 2) If you do NOT have access to the computer...because of reasons like you live apart, and you cannot access anything, then either you need to hire a Private Investigator, or you can... 3) Talk to me. I am an expert in hunting information down... I am very much female, so this will only benefit the women in this instance: If you want to know if your husband/boyfriend/potential partner is cheating or getting up to no good, then just send me a message with all the details and I will get back to you. This service isn't for free...but I have been in the same boat as lots of other women out there and can tell you now...there is nothing like knowing the truth. It will make you feel at ease and you will not have to doubt yourself anymore. I am not a professional agency and all information is held in the strictest confidence. So what do I offer you wonder? I am offering to be the honey trap. If you have heard of that term before then you know what I am talking about. I can chat online with your partner using skype, AIM, YAhoo Messenger, MSN etc. It can be plain text or even voice when they require it. Overall, I am helping you to establish the truth. I have had tons of experience online, and can record everything you need to know. From Voice to Chats. Just email me and then we can see how to proceed further. 4. Another way to check for passwords on a computer: * If they have the Firefox Browser installed do the following: Go to "Tools" then navigate to "Options", then once the screen pops up, navigate to "Security." ***This will only work if they save their passwords on the computer, therefore making it easier for themselves to not have to type the password and username in all the time.*** Once you are on the "Security" page, just locate the button that says "Show Passwords." This should open a list of websites, and the username associated with it. NOw click "Show Passwords" Again and it will pop up asking to confirm that you want to show the passwords, click 'Yes' and then you will have the website url, the username and password displayed for it. There you have it ladies and gentlemen. Luckily a person cannot shut down that section. Even if they do delete all history. 5. You could also try the cookies method. C:\Documents and Settings Then navigate to the admin user folder. It could be called "All Users", or "Default User" or if they named their computer, it will usually be the folder name. Then navigate to cookies. By opening the text files and reading the string of text you will see that most of the time it will list it like this including the domain: id8000014a395decadoubleclick.net/21474846723396887296 This method will show you patterns of websites they visit. So if they visit porn sites often or illegal sites, you will see tons of them. This will not show you passwords or anything. It's merely an indication of behavioral patterns they display when browsing. That's all everyone. Hope everyone had an informative read. Good luck! Contact me at <MOD EDIT> Please Do Not List Email Addresses Within The Threads. Thank You.

I found this site because I am searching and I realy need help. Right now I am very desperate. My fiance right now is playing games with my head. I know he has been cheating on me.

I gave him access to every website I am affiliated with as well as every email I have he had access too. While on myspace this lady from florida left a message to him on his page. So I asked him who she was and he said someone that he was helping but it didn't sit well with me so I messaged her and she told me they had been chatting for months and she new him to be single and he never said that he was engaged. she then tells me how she expressed her interest in him like he had told me but find it suprising that he's not honest enough to tell me how he felt about her..

So with all of that it turned into an arguement between the both of us and he told me I will digg up stuff I wouldnt want to find. so he then goes into all my emails and other sites like HI5 to see what i've been up to to find things to use against me. Only thing he found was a message from someone i dated 10 yrs ago that was asking how i was doing and that they havent seen me in so long and how they missed me. so because I knew the mind of this person and how freaky he can get I told him not to message me at all and please not to contact me and if he does do not say anything nasty that will get me into problems with my then boyfriend at the time. and he found that and made it seem as though i was seeing this guy.

so i changed every password i gave him. so as things start to get better between us a year later he gave me his msn password. as if that would make me feel as if he's safe in my site and i wont question him again. well i used that passward to get access to hi5 and myspace only because he keeps his msn account to clean.
now what i have a problem with is the chatting on msn messanger. he no longer use my lap top. i know how we do when we chatting on messanger and i think he may be doing the same thing with some one else.
how can i catch him?

ok so i know my husbands myspace password...the only thing is that he earases all his message on myspace, like everything no evidence at all.
all i know is that he is cheating on me with his ex wife,( 1 day i sawq a message he sent her and earased right in front of me...then i asked him about it and called me crazy.... and i know he sends her things like comments and messages and they are talking about things that r not their chilldren ..if you get what im saying...so i want to get into her private profile just to confirm...im dying to catch him and tell him to hit the road im sick of this marriage and i need someone to please help me catch him...pleeeasse....

....love very sad and unhappy wife...!!!

I know my b/f is cheating thru myspace I just can't prove it it there anyway to view someone else's messages without gettin' their password?

I had a boyfriend of 5 months who was starting to do some suspicious thing and make some strage comments like "how do I know you don't have three boyfriends?" and quizing me that I doing 'something else' when I went to the gym. I was able to confirm his creating by calling him at his place when I had my computer set up at home with his Yahoo.com address already typed in...all I needed was his password at this point. So, I asked him about his sudden and strange coolness to me and why he thought I might have three boyfriends. He said that it was all nothing and just a joke. I asked him if he had three girlfriends. He said 'no'o and that he loved me very much, etc. I said that I really needed to feel that after 5 months that I could truly trust him and asked if I could have his password to his Yahoo account. I told him he could say 'yes' or 'no' - it wasn't mandatory. Surprisingly, he gave me his password and then told me again how much he loved me, etc. The e-mails told a very different story and he was cheating on me with another woman for the entire time that I had known him. In fact, he referred to me as the "Other Woman"...amazing, when you find out the truth. Pretty much, every night he wasn't with me, he was with her and it seems the other girlfriend was more an occasional 'lunchtime' thing...turns out he did have three girlfriends...talk about a guilty consciousness...so it is important to listen for these types of clues, too.

I'm trying to figure out if my girlfriend is using my space to cheat on me. She said she canceled her account, but I know it takes up to 48 hours for her account to be canceled and hers was gone immediately after she "canceled" it (I checked), so I'm wondering if she somehow just hid it. She also told me that she set her page to private because it keeps spam from getting in on her page. Is this true? I don't think it is, and that she might be lying about that, but if someone knows better, please comment.

I see no use in chasing my husband to see if he cheats me. I am supposed to be sure of my ability to keep him from other temptations. If he really is a cheater that means that I can't trust him anymore and you know what that means: serious marriage problems. I like to think that I am immune at cheating because I always have a back-up plan. I strongly believe that many people are not prepared when stepping into marriage and that's confirmed by the high divorce rate.

What if your significant other isn't doing the majority of the cheating online anymore? Or bought some type of software to use to hide his tracks? Whats Web Hosting? Is it possible to use a secondary drive on a computer & possibly cover his tracks that way? <

I have been thinking about putting a keylogger on my computer at home because i think my girlfriend is cheating on me and i want to know who she is talking to. I am afraid that she will discover the keylogger if i put it on there does anyone have any suggestions on how i can to to gain access to her myspace account and stuff? Is a keylogger the best way to go?

Thanks for any help!!!

xoxoxo

if there is any thought in ur mind, if ur not happy the time will come, the right person will fall into your life, i sound like a commercial but its true, you have no idea when some great is until you lose it....however leave him or her if your not happy dont waste ur time, stress and pain is not worht your time!!!!

Long story short, my ex fiance just had my son on Nov. 22nd, of 06. He is absolutely GORGEOUS. But I have only seen him once. She promised to make my life hell for not taking her back after she left and had her fun. She has hacked into my Myspace, and, posing as me, started up sexual conversations with under age females and everything else. Deleting my pix of my son, posting stupid bulletins acting as myself to make me look stupid, yada yada yada. Does anyone know of anyway I can stop this, or better yet, REVERSE this (hack onto hers to let her feel the same)? Any help would be GREATLY appreciated. I just wanna see my son.

What's the point? If you suspect their cheating they probably are and if they are not then something else is seriously broken. It's better to just move on when you look back you will realize you weren't really happy either. Someone who cheats rather than being honest is a jerk anyway and doesn't deserve you.
You catch them they lie or blame you as to why they cheated beg your forgiveness you take them back they cheat again because you forgave them once before so why not, it's not worth it, a cheater is selfish and they don't change.

I would just like to view a lot of people's myspace that is set to private... It's annoying not being able to. lol I like to look at all the girls/boys that my son is chatting or hanging out with. His isn't set to private but 99 % of his friends are. boo

My situation is a bit different and I would really appreciate it if someone would be kind enough to email me a code if one still exists.

Through a seven year marriage I put my husband through college (and myself as well, as I am one year older) and now make more money than he does. I am soon to be filing for divorce due to several years of various infidelity. He has expressed to me that he will seek alimony from me because I make double his salary and also will deny all infidelity which he has always admitted to after being caught. My attorney says that if I can prove even any infidelity it would help. He has a myspace page which I know now that his page is private he has photos up of him and his new nineteen year old girlfriend and if I could somehow print them I think they would be helpful in court.

Ladies and gentleman I would like you to watch out for how I discovered the last straw in my marriage. My husband had his myspace account where yes I was his number one friend and he even had a video montage of me on it and spoke of how in love he was. He then had a different one, under a different email address that I didn't even know he had which said he was single and looking and evidentally he'd been flirting with girls at his job (a club) A LOT along with exgirlfriends, etc. So with the different email, how did I find it? It was interesting that he didn't have any of our mutual friends on his friends lists. He only had some of his buddies and girls he was meeting on there. I just happened to be on one of his friends pages from his other page and see that there were too profiles with his photo and I was shocked! So in a nut shell, check the profiles of his/her friends. I've already heard of this working for one person I know and she was devastated but in case she knew. Of course this is difficult with people hiding their friends lists, but it's something else to try.

get a key logger and you can see any profile you want if you hack their computer using a key logger. but becareful 85% of keyloggers on the internet are fake!!!!!!

How do you see a profile set to private? My boyfriend is trying to "punish" me by having it on private but i know hes hiding something.

The only way that i will know for sure it to look at her blogs I but its set to friends only?

well weve been having drama and we both decided to eliminate our drama we'll both delete our myspaces yeah ryt so i delete mine no problems but it says he still has one i just wanna know im not really in a position to be arguing withhim

i wonder if i can read my girlfriends messages she gets sent to her my space message box without her knowing i dont have her passwords or anything how can i get to see whos been writting to her

Hey Everyone!
OK, well almost all these comments are about cheating. If you think that your boyfriend or girlfriend are cheating, why not just ask them straight up? If the care about you enough, they will tell you the truth. If you still think that they are lieing, when you ask them, as they are getting ready to answer, look for signs that they are not telling the truth. For example: if the close or cover their eyes, lower their voice, or other stuff like that. just trust them sooner or later you'll find out the truth and if you love them enough, you'll believe what they have to say!!!!!!!!!!!

things havent been right latley and shes been very shady and sketchy. i want to be able to read her recent messages on myspace. any advice on how to do that?

i forgot it, i changed it and didnt think to write it down, and tom wont send it to me its been like 3 days, can someone please if you do not mind help me hack into my myspace and get my password.

love lisa