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Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Myspace, Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.
Chat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.
Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)
What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. One data logging program that we recommend is All In One Keylogger* by Relytec.com.
All In One KeyLogger* runs on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and it records everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time. All In One Keylogger* is a great way to find out what he or she is doing on your computer when you aren't around. It's not cheap - but it works quite well.
If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure
By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* such as All In One KeyLogger* you can find out for sure if your significant-other really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.
Worried about getting caught? Afraid that you are being watched?
If you are of the opinion that what you do on your computer is your business and nobody else's, then you will need to take steps to protect your privacy. Programs like Evidence Eraser will protect your privacy by scanning and removing all traces of whatever it is that you don't want others to see. Software like Evidence Eraser is not free, but they do have a free-trial version - CLICK HERE for a free trail of Evidence Eraser.
* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you. Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.
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And.. You're with him still..because??
I have been reading these comments and post of husbands cheating and its heartbreking to think I might be in the same position.
Resintly the company my husband works for has been sending him around the world for training, he took my laptop with on the last trip he had and when he came back , I used the internet to do some work . I discoverd the recent history of the internet and there was online dating sites being visted as well as porn sites , I freaked out and confronted hime, he swore it wasn't him and that he had problems with pop-ups that would not close if he didn't access the site itself , is this even true? my heart is so sore because I am 5 months pregnant with is child and we recently got married and I just don't wish to have this type of behaviour aroung a newbourn. I even almost commited suicide because I just couldn't get over the fact that I married a man like this but I am still scared of it being true !!!!! what to do What to do!
Hi, Just wanted to point a couple of things out...not trying to downplay what you are feeling, First of all when you veiw any porn site or adult movie sites on the computer every dating site in the book starts hounding you from the most respectful to the sleezest of the sleeze, you get live sex play popping up, as if it were popcorn, so I dought you need to be concerned about that. I am a female but the porn stuff does not bother me, I actually find it very "mood setting", and fun to watch a movie with my guy, nothing hard core xxx/rape not into that but they can be very erotic. being newly married,5 mths pregnant, and being seperated gives you both a lotto deal with.....mabey its just takingcare of busisness...better by himself with a movie, then a hooker...right.
and you have a zillion times more emotions then normal...and they will control you and make you crazy..youll cry over stupid comercials, someone will have a strange look on there face and you will be convienced there is something wrong with you....and nothing can be done about it......I am not sure how old you are but thoughts of suicide if you are seriouse is a red flag to me
pregnancy puts your body through hell, there is so much happining..mabey you should tell your doctor if these thought continue please. I have lived through being cheeted on so I know...but try to be reasonable and hopefully you married a honest man, its ok for him to have a sexual outlet, hes away from his new wife, who is carring his child , he cantbe there for you,if he gets the urge, id be thankful its only porn. ask him face to face..but let him know your not gonna freak if hes watching porn...dont make him guilty of the wrong discretion...good luck and best wishes
I have never seen a pop-up that would not go away unless i visited a site..
Also - i have mentioned this before (and got much flack for it) but I would not be concerned about the porn sites - if it bothers you, the both of you should discuss it.
The online dating sites i would be concerned about.
This topic seems to be extensive...so I'm not alone. My boyfriend tells me he receives numerous unsolicted emails from adult dating sites. He has said that he is not a member of any of these sites.
This situation has gone on for at least a year. The other day, I asked him to open his email so I can see if he was opening these emails. In my mind, the only reason why those types of emails, which subject line is explicit, would be opened is if he is a member or he is interested in those sites. He got very upset but said "sure, I have nothing to hide". Then he fiddled with his phone (an Android), jumping back and forth from the inbox, deleted and junk files so fast I couldn't not read the sender's name nor see if the emails had been opened and would not letting me touch his phone so I could see. And he got angrier and more defensive when I told him to stop opening and closing different emails. I just wanted to see what emails were tagged as read, didn't even want to see the contents since the subject line said it all ("I'm hot & horny", "Want to meet up with you", "free all night & weekends", etc).
Sure enough almost every email for adult dating sites had been read. He said that he opened them to see who was sending him this "garbage" and what the "garbage" was. Really.. I told him that it's obvious what the "garbage" is. He absolute denies any membership with any of these sites and was hurt and angry that I was accusing him. I reminded him that I didn't accuse him of anything - that I need to have my curiousity sated.
My question is - sinces there is hundred of adult dating websites, is there a way to run a query using an email address to search for if a person is a member of these type of sites? (A keylogger with not work since he does all his internet "stuff" on his phone. And I don't trust the "spy" apps offered to "spy" on his phone. I have read where women have been busted by their boyfriends/husband for installing such an app on their phone.
You could try a site like Pipl.com - it will search thru everything that is publicly available.. But, if it was ME cheating on you, no way i would use my 'real' name or email to sign up on those sites.
Take my word for it... If he is being secretive then you have much to be concerned about.
If he won't let you see his facebook page and he won't let you see inside his cell there IS something wrong with that picture!
You have a choice to make.
You can tell him you want to see or else you will walk away - end the relationship.
If he has nothing to hide, or he has been feeling guilty and wants to make a fresh start with you (which is very difficult once you know he has cheated) and truly cares for you, then he will have no problem being open with you.
It's called transparency.
If he refuses, then the ball is on your court.
Fire him!
You deserve better!






