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Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Myspace, Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.
Chat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.
Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)
What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. One data logging program that we recommend is All In One Keylogger* by Relytec.com.
All In One KeyLogger* runs on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and it records everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time. All In One Keylogger* is a great way to find out what he or she is doing on your computer when you aren't around. It's not cheap - but it works quite well.
If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure
By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* such as All In One KeyLogger* you can find out for sure if your significant-other really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.
Worried about getting caught? Afraid that you are being watched?
If you are of the opinion that what you do on your computer is your business and nobody else's, then you will need to take steps to protect your privacy. Programs like Evidence Eraser will protect your privacy by scanning and removing all traces of whatever it is that you don't want others to see. Software like Evidence Eraser is not free, but they do have a free-trial version - CLICK HERE for a free trail of Evidence Eraser.
* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you. Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.
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Wed, 05/16/2012 - 9:40pm
#1
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Hi i want a free site to see if my boyfriend is messing around on me or to see what other sites he has profiles on i know he has a facebook but i want to see where else he has a profile. If you know a none paying site where i can get info on him please let me know thank you.
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Thu, 05/10/2012 - 8:11pm
#2
Muddlespud
I am on Facebook
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If you visit a pornography site once you will get spammed more than you could ever imagine. I have never visited them, don't want to, and well my system thanks me for it. If my partner cheats I would hope that she would have the decency to tell me about it. Good luck to you all.
Thu, 05/10/2012 - 7:55pm
#3
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my boyfriend doesn't hide his Facebook page or his phone from me but I caught him on several occasions talking to different females, flirting, inviting them to his house, inviting them out for drinks, and arguing them down trying to make them believe his Facebook status says "in a relationship" because he has a stalker. I confronted him about t and he swore he wouldnt do it again..two months later there's a text in his phone from some girl asking him to com over at 9pm..then he's talking to some girl he used to have sex with right before he "decided" to stay with me. He told me that he'll stop but so far he hasn't, I still see messages from girl on Facebook ad now he's staying out late saying that he's with his brother.
Mon, 05/07/2012 - 10:12pm
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My husband decided to emotionally cheat on me. We were married for one day over a week when it started. It lasted for a week. It was with someone who was supposed to be a friend and coworker. She is 18, still in high school and going nowhere in life. I was planning a bachelorette party for my brother's fiance coming up and they were supposed to be setting up everything while I retrieved her for her surprise. All my other friends and family coming where of age to go out drinking before hand so with my birthday coming up we were going to go out to 'celebrate' my birthday. Meanwhile, they were supposed to work together to decorate while all of the guests came. Well they started sending messages back and forth about this day coming up and how they can't wait. The things that they want to do, how he can't stop thinking about her and just so many things completely unnecessary. I had been robbed a week prior while at work so I was going to doctors appointments that week and also starting my first week of training at work. He had been laid of at his job recently so he was always home. I was out working and in and out of doctors appointments while he was chatting with her until all hours of the morning. I just lost it. He claimed he was sorry and he was going to get counseling but I think he would be better off with someone new. He claims it was just because someone was showing him attention yet he wasn't there in my time of need. Why should I forgive him. We had only been married for 1 week and 1 day!!! what in the worlddd?
Tue, 05/01/2012 - 11:54pm
#6
cfie
I am new here at GrownUpGeek.Com
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I feel sad for you all going through all that crap, I don't have anyone now and will gladly never have If one day I find someone because If we are not good enough friends that we are open to each other In every way that we talk about everything out of respect & trust for one another before marriage I won't ever Marry him I went through crap like that when my daughters were babies and I still love and think about him every single day but no matter what you do If they don't respect you enough to be faithful & honest your just delaying the Inevitable If he refuses to think about your feelings and Is that secretive because faithful people should have nothing to hide and If your pregnant you are a lot more emotional and If he Is that Insensitive to your condition I would follow my gut feelings because I am a true believer In that because every time I didn't follow my gut feeling I have regretted It and and trusting In my gut has literally saved my life a couple of times.I raised my girls alone It hurt leaving and still hurts but I believe I was spared from a lot more pain.Everybody's just human If a person keeps placing themselves Into a tempting situation that they know Is wrong temptation usually wins! because people stay away from things they don't like as much as possible.
Mon, 04/30/2012 - 10:30pm
#7
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My husband allowed me to set him up a Facebook acct a few years ago. So he is aware I have his password. The other day I went on because I had a weird feeling and sure enough in his messages he had contacted a girl that he hasnt seen in 10 years. The messages were whats up gorgeous its been a long time, how r u? She responded im good how bout urself? He wrote back wow love the hair reminds me of back in the day. Then the next day he wrote good morning beautiful...she didnt respond then made a comment about her kids photograph and that he was proud of her and then because he got no response asked if he did something to make her mad. Finally she.responded she was working and not to ask if she was mad at him, lol! I was very upset that he did this and feel he was trying to flirt and if I wouldnt have found it n said aomething it could have gone a lot further. I truly dont know if I will ever be able to trust.him again and if I should leave him.
Sat, 05/05/2012 - 11:41am
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I understand what you are feeling. I've been there before. My ex-husband met a woman on FaceBook, and after reading an email from her, i discovered they were meeting up for sex regularly. It started out as an innocent flirt, and ends up into an affair that almost destroyed our 3 year marriage. Most men don't seem to understand that internet cheating is emotional cheating. If he's in a committed relationship and he's chatting up random women or soliciting sex on the internet, it is dishonest especially if he's being sneaky about it. I just read a great post on this issue.
Thu, 05/03/2012 - 1:57pm
#9
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You should talk to him about it. Tell him how uncomfortable it made you feel. If he wants your trust he will be willing to do whatever it takes to help you regain it. Even if that means letting you see for yourself in his FaceBook that no such thing is going on. If he is reluctant to fully disclose what you need him to, that is something you really need to get to the bottom of. Even if it was boredom and he was looking for an ego boost, if it makes you feel uncomfortable it is something as your partner he needs to stop doing immediately.
You do need to tell him that he crossed a line of what is appropriate with another woman. Ask him to explain his motivation to you. He was certainly playing with fire, but that doesn't mean he was cheating. But be clear about one thing, people don't cheat because there is something wrong with their spouse people cheat because there is something wrong within themselves. They are looking to fill, fix or soothe something that is missing that they lack the courage to face or fix in appropriate ways and within their marriage. If you are concerned, you are his partner, tell him you want to help him fix it.
Thu, 05/03/2012 - 1:18pm
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very inappropriate. I know the feeling. My husband allowed me on his facebook and email till one day he changed the passwords. I hacked into them and found he had been doing the same thing as well as receiving nude pics from a woman he had just added as a friend on facebook. In order to trust him he has to be open about everything and is willing to never do it again.
Fri, 04/27/2012 - 5:51pm
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i am with my boyfriend for one year and three months but i cant stop being suspecious that his texting and seeing hes ex girl friend and he still keeps their old pictures. it does bother me and make me paranoid.he keep denying about not using facebook but i found out he is chatting with different girls. sending flirt messages
Mon, 04/16/2012 - 5:37am
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I would like to know if he cheating on twitter
Thu, 04/12/2012 - 1:47am
#13
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I have been reading these comments and post of husbands cheating and its heartbreking to think I might be in the same position.
Resintly the company my husband works for has been sending him around the world for training, he took my laptop with on the last trip he had and when he came back , I used the internet to do some work . I discoverd the recent history of the internet and there was online dating sites being visted as well as porn sites , I freaked out and confronted hime, he swore it wasn't him and that he had problems with pop-ups that would not close if he didn't access the site itself , is this even true? my heart is so sore because I am 5 months pregnant with is child and we recently got married and I just don't wish to have this type of behaviour aroung a newbourn. I even almost commited suicide because I just couldn't get over the fact that I married a man like this but I am still scared of it being true !!!!! what to do What to do!
Thu, 04/26/2012 - 6:20pm
#14
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Hi, Just wanted to point a couple of things out...not trying to downplay what you are feeling, First of all when you veiw any porn site or adult movie sites on the computer every dating site in the book starts hounding you from the most respectful to the sleezest of the sleeze, you get live sex play popping up, as if it were popcorn, so I dought you need to be concerned about that. I am a female but the porn stuff does not bother me, I actually find it very "mood setting", and fun to watch a movie with my guy, nothing hard core xxx/rape not into that but they can be very erotic. being newly married,5 mths pregnant, and being seperated gives you both a lotto deal with.....mabey its just takingcare of busisness...better by himself with a movie, then a hooker...right.
and you have a zillion times more emotions then normal...and they will control you and make you crazy..youll cry over stupid comercials, someone will have a strange look on there face and you will be convienced there is something wrong with you....and nothing can be done about it......I am not sure how old you are but thoughts of suicide if you are seriouse is a red flag to me
pregnancy puts your body through hell, there is so much happining..mabey you should tell your doctor if these thought continue please. I have lived through being cheeted on so I know...but try to be reasonable and hopefully you married a honest man, its ok for him to have a sexual outlet, hes away from his new wife, who is carring his child , he cantbe there for you,if he gets the urge, id be thankful its only porn. ask him face to face..but let him know your not gonna freak if hes watching porn...dont make him guilty of the wrong discretion...good luck and best wishes
Fri, 04/13/2012 - 4:37am
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this is so sad im in the same boat but 8 and a half months preg. mine is a little smarter and deletes email to girls and does incognito when doing something he doesnt want me to see. he is on the internet all day for work and i have no way of keeping track of what he does. there was something today though he said this girl contacted him but he erased the message so i wouldnt see that she and he said to each other. we have been together for 12 years since i was 17 and its so sad our marriage has been over for a while but now this is just icing on the cake finding out stuff on the internet.
Thu, 04/12/2012 - 6:05am
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I have never seen a pop-up that would not go away unless i visited a site..
Also - i have mentioned this before (and got much flack for it) but I would not be concerned about the porn sites - if it bothers you, the both of you should discuss it.
The online dating sites i would be concerned about.
Tue, 04/10/2012 - 9:08am
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This topic seems to be extensive...so I'm not alone. My boyfriend tells me he receives numerous unsolicted emails from adult dating sites. He has said that he is not a member of any of these sites.
This situation has gone on for at least a year. The other day, I asked him to open his email so I can see if he was opening these emails. In my mind, the only reason why those types of emails, which subject line is explicit, would be opened is if he is a member or he is interested in those sites. He got very upset but said "sure, I have nothing to hide". Then he fiddled with his phone (an Android), jumping back and forth from the inbox, deleted and junk files so fast I couldn't not read the sender's name nor see if the emails had been opened and would not letting me touch his phone so I could see. And he got angrier and more defensive when I told him to stop opening and closing different emails. I just wanted to see what emails were tagged as read, didn't even want to see the contents since the subject line said it all ("I'm hot & horny", "Want to meet up with you", "free all night & weekends", etc).
Sure enough almost every email for adult dating sites had been read. He said that he opened them to see who was sending him this "garbage" and what the "garbage" was. Really.. I told him that it's obvious what the "garbage" is. He absolute denies any membership with any of these sites and was hurt and angry that I was accusing him. I reminded him that I didn't accuse him of anything - that I need to have my curiousity sated.
My question is - sinces there is hundred of adult dating websites, is there a way to run a query using an email address to search for if a person is a member of these type of sites? (A keylogger with not work since he does all his internet "stuff" on his phone. And I don't trust the "spy" apps offered to "spy" on his phone. I have read where women have been busted by their boyfriends/husband for installing such an app on their phone.
Tue, 04/10/2012 - 9:31am
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Find out if your boyfriend is cheating
You could try a site like Pipl.com - it will search thru everything that is publicly available.. But, if it was ME cheating on you, no way i would use my 'real' name or email to sign up on those sites.
Tue, 04/10/2012 - 4:30am
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Wow, I am amazed to read how many people are affected, and I mean it's just a small proportion posting here. I caught my partner cheating using Skype and FaceBook. Yes, I have confronted her, she doesn't see it as cheating and said I was insecure.... Yeah right. She said she stopped messaging people now and it's all good.
2 years later I find her again flirting on FaceBook, probably not so much her but some other guy commenting on some of her stuff. I assume the messages (which I can't see) would tell the full story. Fact is, she is paranoid about her electronics and keeps it all well password protected. My feeling is, she will always do it. I wish I could proofe but I just follow my instinct.
Thu, 03/29/2012 - 4:56pm
#20
rebecca226
I am new here at GrownUpGeek.Com
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My husband keeps his computer at work and his phone locked. I don't think there is a way to check even though I know he is talking to a x
Thu, 04/05/2012 - 6:42pm
#21
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If its locked ask to use his phone say your is broken check out his text and history been there done this trust is everything but he has to earn trust and talking to his ex well i would throw a fit or show him how it feels
Mon, 05/14/2012 - 9:38am
#22
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If his phone is locked and the computer has a password then he is up to no good. All of this stuff should be open in a trusting marriage. Get real! I have been married for 40 years and never had this problem.
Tue, 04/03/2012 - 12:45pm
#23
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Go online and look at the detailed summary for the cellphone carrier that is used for the cell.
That is assuming you are both on the same plan and have access to the password for the billing statement.
That is how I got exact numbers, dates, and times.
There are many other avenues to do research also.
Good luck with your searching.
Tue, 03/27/2012 - 11:13pm
#24
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I think my boyfriend is chatting up girls on Facebook I carnt get into his computer because he put a password on it and he has a password on his phone as well I want to hack into his Facebook without him knowing but I don't know how to do that does anyone know how I can do this ?
Tue, 04/03/2012 - 12:52pm
#25
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Take my word for it... If he is being secretive then you have much to be concerned about.
If he won't let you see his facebook page and he won't let you see inside his cell there IS something wrong with that picture!
You have a choice to make.
You can tell him you want to see or else you will walk away - end the relationship.
If he has nothing to hide, or he has been feeling guilty and wants to make a fresh start with you (which is very difficult once you know he has cheated) and truly cares for you, then he will have no problem being open with you.
It's called transparency.
If he refuses, then the ball is on your court.
Fire him!
You deserve better!
Mon, 03/05/2012 - 3:13pm
#26
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My name is teriza i am from United Arab Emirate,i was in a relationship with aphahi and will love and cherish our self for 3 good years and every thing was going on smoothly but February 14 a day i can call a lovers day will both had misunderstanding because i answered a call with a guy that is asking me out for a date but i refused,and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and i begged him because i love him so much but he refused me i was so down cast and i feet the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that help her sister out in getting there relationship back but at first i was scared but i have to give this man a try because i love aphasia very much and i am not willing to loose him to any woman,so i odered returning my love spell from this great spell caster that make me a happy girl again to say it all my ex come back to me with much lover and caring heart...i am testify to this great spell caster.
Sat, 03/10/2012 - 3:58pm
#27
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Im sorry to hear that but i dont know what spell caster you used and if that was acually what did make your boyfriend come back to you.
I found one spell caster a few years ago on the internet in los angeles i think and i spoke to her a few times and she promised me that her spell will work and it cost bla bla bla and if it wont work within 60 days or something like that, she will send my money bk to me. Ye, and it didnt work so i called and called her, and she was just hanging up the phone on me. Never saw my money again. And me and my boyfriend did get bk 4 months after that point but it had nothing to do with a spell. and to this day we still hav a bad relationship where we argue all the time. So be careful evertone before you deside to act as desperete as me and waste your money.
Sun, 02/26/2012 - 4:14pm
#28
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I have been dating this gut for a year now he has kids by 2 different women, my concern is that his youngest daughter's mom who is about to be released from jail in march, he is still involved with I am sure she doesn't know about me and at one point he hid a letter which i found saying how he missed her smile, I don't want to get hurt again will you please help me
Tue, 04/03/2012 - 12:56pm
#29
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It's time to help yourself.
Get away from him and find someone better suited for your needs and desires.
If you do not, then you are going to spend many gut knotting and heart twisting hours in pain over this guy.
Mon, 02/27/2012 - 2:35am
#30
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start planning your life without this guy right away. dont wait to be heart broken by this ruthless individual. obviously he doesnt care about how you feel now and when he hooks up with this woman again. i am currently involved with a woman who is cheating on me big time but luckily enough for me I have found out everything without her knowing and have decided to hang in there and see how far her stupidity will take her. she is just heartless, selfish and greedy. if you dont stop now you are a sure candidate for a seroius heart break. follow your dreams lady. bite the bullet and start an enjoyable life with somebody who loves you without reservations.
I could go on and on.................
