Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

Myspace, facebook, tagged etc all the same to me...an online meat market. My ex started hiding Poopoo from me on his friggin myspace and that was last year. I already busted his ass and just waited for him to fess up. He did. HAHA...good thing I learnt some tricks on here using deep web crawler and managed to get the whore's boyfriend's phone number. So after the tosser fessed up, I excused myself, dialled the slore's boyfriend's phone number and had a chat with him. I asked him where the loose meat curtain was and he kindly replied "she was at his nana's, would you like to leave a message?" to which I retorted..."yes, i would like to inform you that my boyfriend was blasting your gf's  face with his bodily fluids over the fourth of july. If I were you, I would desist from sharing my straw or bottle of beer with her since I believe, she was not able to flush her throat properly. Thank you." Busy tone.

well i found out things that my bfriend was doing things on FaceBookook with other girls and what i found out was not good at all he was asking thi girls very personal questions online.and it was more then 1 person what should i do.

hey all i have just been reading ure comments i have suspected my wife of cheating for a few months now and i am looking for some advice on how to put my mind @ ease

have an idea. why dont we all get together and post ads on craigslist and find each others men? I have always wanted to do that but don't know hot to start. We can save pics and then post them on a special website and we can all look for our "men"

we're in a long distance relationship, so its hard to find out, she gets too comfortable with guys and that bugs me, and really comfortable with 1 guy who i assume is the guy she's cheating on me with, i really dont know what to do, help ?

I don't careanymore.... Let him do what he want's because girls are way smarter than boys and men!!! We could just do the same damn thing to them..

Hi All,

I have found out that my fiance of 2 years has been doing all the same things as all your men online. I moved countries to be with him, now I am stuck here with no job, no friends, no life and I gave up everything, a good job, career, independence, etc , to be with him.

I thought I knew him so well. I always thought I am a good judge of character. Anyway, after being here with him for just 1 month, one month before getting married...I found 4 emails that he had sent to escorts from Craigslist and Eros.com. He also had TONS of dating site profiles up, -eHarmony, AdultFriendFinder, ALT.Com, etc etc etc

Its been almost 7 weeks since I first found those emails wanting to hook up with them. He denied it FLAT. Like any cheating man would. Says he gets into these depressive states from time to time which causes him to "act out" in these ways and its "not sexual". How can emailing whores to meet up not be sexual???

He says he felt better about his life after seeing the degradation of what these people offered.

Never mind he set up similar accounts EVERYWHERE to meet up with these people all over the site! Who knows if he slept with them or not? To me, its still cheating.

I have found more and more out over the past 7 weeks.

Ladies, let me give you some advice, how I would have done things differently:

1. Google his email addresses - it gives you lists of a lot of the places he has accounts. Sign yourself up to check out what he is doing there
2. If you find something bad, DON'T confront him immediately! This was my biggest mistake and I still keep doing it! Give yourself time to calm down and DO MORE DIGGING/web research before you say anything or he will go and delete it all and hide things better and change passwords, so keep calm and keep digging! You will hate yourself if you found an email to another woman, confront him, he denies meeting up with her, but then its too late, he cleaned it all up and you will wonder forever.
3. If he is going into places like Eros.Com, Craigslist, ALT.Com - dont be fooled! These are not friendly social networking sites like Facebook. The first 2 are sites where prostitutes and escorts advertise their services to hook up with people. Watch out! Its not innocent! Same for ALT.Com - its an alternative lifestyle website (ie Bisexual curious) where you load up profiles to meet other people with taboo sexual interests and to hook up discreetly.

Ladies, beware. There are so many temptations out there on the net, never mind the local pub! Watch out for what he is doing online if you dont trust him. The answers are all there.

If he has ever used your computer, you can always do a harddrive repartition, which recovers lost/deleted files. Thats how I found out even more, but still cant prove he slept with anyone. He has done EVERYTHING expect that. But how do you prove that? Send a detective to get it on film?

PFFT - trust your judgment when it comes to them. And good luck

Well, I found out by using this site and what posters told me to do and I found out he was cyber cheating and I am not his soulmate nor does my kiss make him happy as he told some girl from years ago that her kiss was the only kiss that meant anything and just as though "my soulmate is at the other end of this email, my life is complete"... I was so pissed. I got the keylogger one where they take photos of the pages and give all passwords for 7 days. Then I got a hold of all letters she and he wrote, tell me what you all think of a few I posted and compare them to your own cheating mates, and let me know thru this site how it is: HERE ARE LETTERS:

Good morning, My Darling M______
Many years ago, after the Theatre Guild Awards, when you won Best Actress, I walked you home. At that time you were staying somewhere off of Wilshire Blvd. It was such a great walk we had. I was in love with you then. After we arrived at your place, as I was leaving, you kissed me. It was a fantastic kiss. To this day, I have never felt any thing like that kiss. I didn't just walk, I floated home! I truly knew that night how much I was in love with you. I was kissed by my soulmate. My love for you has never faded. It's only grown stronger. When was the first time you knew you were in love with me? I know it must have been later on. I've dreamed and prayed for the day you would be talking to me the way you have in these e-mails. I love you more then I've loved anyone. You are my soulmate. Yes, I want to be with you. Things will take time, but K and I will be talking after she recovers. Yes, that will be a tough time, but as I said before, knowing that you, my dearest love M is back in my life, is everything. I want you to know, that Kate is a good person, with a good heart, it might not seem that way to you after what she did to you, but trust me she is. I tell you that, so you won't worry about me in dealing with her recovery. PLEASE, lets be descreat. As I said before, Kate is pre-surgery, and can't get upset. We don't want a repeat of what just happened. Well, there it is. It's out in the Universe. Please call me, early morning on 5/5. Yes, my wife will be in the Hospital, but I'm off from work and it's a good time. Just to hear your voice!! Then, we just continue with e-mails. THIS IS REALLY ME WRITING YOU, WHO ELSE WOULD KNOW ABOUT THE PLAY? M, you are everything to me. MY LOVE, MY LIGHT, MY SOULMATE.
I LOVE YOU.
> > > > > > XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXXO
> > > > > > CHEATING HUSBAND!!!! (I PUT THAT IN)

if your in a REAL MATURE RELATIONSHIP neither one of you need to have myspace, facebook etc. whenever him or her are in the shower discreetly look through phone. get a keylogger and encourage surfing so you know what they look at! if u know your partners email or figure it out dont foret to check the spam box!!! instide it you may see scam mail of onlinebootycall, singlesnet etc. but go to these sites enter forgot password and c if they actually have an account then i can view for yourself..if your suggenicant other is cheating ditch them youll never fogive or forget the hurtful pain

WOW, I used this program someone on this board recommended and I got into all his accounts online and found about 2 emails from girls that said they hate me and I make them nervous, but no real cheating, just big searches for girls he know back when! I loved that I could get his account email. One girl said she was hesitant to write him 'cause "your wife" reads your email, and he wrote back saying, "She doesn't!" Trust me... This program worked so well. I have all codes and accounts and even a visual photo of each page he went to and one of them was E-harmony.com which surprised me. But so far no real cheating. He just has a ton of pay day loans he does not want me to have! Program downloaded from net !

Very very simple: Find out the woman's name, then go to a cheap hotmail or other email service and set up an account using her first name and write to him at his email and say "Hi, I set this email up so you and I could email private without your wife knowing, yada yada!" If he answers then you know. BECAUSE, it happened to me. I found out he was emailing his ex roommate girl from 20 years ago and I set up this account with her first name and wrote him... He wrote back and you would not believe what I found out. Then a few weeks later we had a big fight and I let it slip that I was the girl he was writing and he was so upset, but it worked. Now we are not getting along and I did a search of what he searched and one of them was that girl, so I set up another account and we'll see if he answers....

So I did catch my husband cheating on me with facebook. It was a purely freak accident that busted him, but I had to know the truth so I did some investigations on my own. The day after I became highly suspicious (his drunk friend ratted him out), I signed onto his facebook account WHILE HE WAS ON. Much to my surprise, I was able to read the chat in real time with his "girlfriend". I've never really handled anger well and this was no exception. I read the chat back to him, got up and threw his laptop on the floor over and over again until it was completely busted. He told me I was crazy and he was "only joking". Whatever. I took his hard drive out and threw the rest of the computer away. When I had some time to myself, I got his hard drive out and started digging. Unfortunately, it was corrupted because of the thrashing (I am guessing), but I found a great FREE software program called EASEUS that recovered over half of the hard drive, including deleted files! I wanted to look at his internet history. What did I find? A bunch of .txt files. Hmmm, I thought... It was a record of his facebook chat!!! Couldn't believe it! Now I know the truth. Also, found out that some .that files are Yahoo chat records. So long story short, you can retrieve all of those chat records with a simple, free program to recover deleted files (scan the partition). Good luck to all who need it. I feel better knowing for sure what exactly was said between these two. It gave me the feeling of having power over my own life again. Now I can make some informed decisions.